For the past year I have been bombarded with webinars, seminars, articles, and guru’s saying that I need to jump on the social media train. I’ve been extremely skeptical about investing a tremendous amount of time because in the past I’ve fallen into the internet trap where I’ll work on a “quick” task and 3 hours later wonder where the time went.
I found this article from RISMedia which takes the stance that spending time on social media can be a wasteful. While the verdict is still out, I tend to agree because I haven’t heard of anyone actually getting a financial return on their time investment. In my opinion, the most important activities in Real Estate involve buying, selling, and renting. If you’re not focused on those, then you are wasting your most valuable resource, time. Enjoy!
RISMEDIA, November 12, 2009 – Remember when My Space ruled the social media scene? Remember Google buying them for the heady sum of $900 million? They just announced that their traffic has gone down so much that Google will not have to make this year’s annual payment of $300 million or so.
Did you see the article in another e-newsletter last week in which two “successful” social media real estate agents were profiled: one who had never sold a home from her four hours a day efforts and another who had sold one from his two hours a day efforts (oh, but they both have thousands of people following them?).
You are being told that in order to succeed online you must continue to employ esoteric and obscure social networking sites, in addition to Twitter, Facebook, etc. After all, who can ignore the Twitter nation of 250 million members? You must participate. (Pay no attention to that man behind the curtain reporting that the vast majority of Twitterers make one tweet and never come back).
Well, as I have been telling you for three years now, that is hogwash. Social media is a sinkhole that absorbs time, effort and money that could better be spent on finding listings and selling houses. Social media is the new blogging. It too will peak, then decline with one very large exception: affinity group business communication.
Affinity group business communication is where groups of like-minded business professionals in an industry utilize a resource to stay in touch with each other. Unfortunately, it is my belief that such social networking won’t last or really take off between sellers of real estate and people looking to purchase it.
Why social media won’t be a long-term selling tool for real estate
In February 2008, I tried to explain why advertising and social networking don’t complement each other. My friend, Michael Krisa (“That Interview Guy”) explained it to me like this: “Advertising in social network sites is like this: You and I are in my newly renovated kitchen having a coffee. You ask me who did the work and I gladly refer the contractor because I am pleased with the job he did. As I’m writing down his name and number, there is a flash of light and the sickening sound of breaking glass as Home Depot throws a brick through my window promoting their own renovation team…ads on social network sites are just as welcome as that brick…and equally as annoying.”
I have seen nothing—either in theory or in results—that has changed my mind. The two concepts are not compatible for what real estate professionals are selling. While those with huge sums of money to spend on mass advertising may disagree, my position comes from the frame of reference of the professional agent: someone whose time is money, and whose time cannot be wasted without deleteriously affecting their livelihood.
It is the function of techies to push new technology upon us
I’m no slouch when it comes to IT. I’m no programmer, but I’m relatively in the know about all phases of the Internet and personal computing. When it comes to marketing, I understand it as well as anyone. My efforts in these columns are to advance marketing.
Techies, on the other hand, love to wax rhapsodic about “the next big thing.” They write about things outside the experience of agents, regular folks and non-techies because that is their life. By telling us all we must utilize a particular technology, they make themselves more valuable and more influential. By offering new courses on the latest thing, they extract yet more money out of an already reeling agent base.
Trust me, folks, a course on how to social network isn’t going to sell that next property for you. Neither is a tweet or a placement on your Facebook page. Sure, “everybody’s doing it” but don’t you toss that lame reasoning out when your high school kid told you the same thing trying to justify (insert unjustifiable thing, here)?
Lemmings rarely are top salespeople, and those who do not understand the one great truth about selling houses in the digital age will never succeed at doing so.
The one great truth about selling houses in the digital age
You must put the Internet to work for you. An estimated 880 million people search Google for a real estate related thing each month. They search Google—not Twitter, not Facebook or whatever the newest and hippest social site is these days.
The home-buying audience may be hip, but most are concerned. They want access, value and service from their agent. No matter how “hip” they are, they want a professional who knows more than they do about real estate; to guide them and to help them. They play on Twitter, they social network on Facebook, they buy homes from the Internet.
Want to sell houses online?
An advanced degree in techie is not required. Three things are required:
Internet buyers must be able to find you when they search for homes online;
You must attract between 5 and 15% of these buyers to sign in and ask you for more information; you must follow up properly (not with auto-responders) and promptly; NAR says 50% of agents call an internet lead within 54 hours and the other 50% never call them. That may be in part due to the poor quality of many of these purported “leads” but regardless: 54 hours doesn’t cut it. Under one hour cuts it.
Don’t be stampeded into feeling like you are disconnected
One of the oldest techniques in the world to promote a cure is to create a sickness. Lacking an interest or skills in social networking will not affect your selling real estate. Lacking an Internet presence will greatly affect that ability and having one will bring you success you can’t now imagine.
If you could talk with agents who sell 10, 20, 50 or more homes from their websites annually, they’d tell you this: response time is far more important than any other factor in responding to a lead. They’d also tell you that the quality of leads is the single biggest factor in selling homes to Internet buyers. If you aren’t getting leads from your website, or you are getting the old “corporate junk leads” and are so frustrated with them that you have mentally kissed them off, re-read the paragraph above this one. Do that and you will succeed.
The rest of this social networking stuff is fine for becoming and making friends. I don’t know about you, but most agents don’t go into real estate to make friends, they do it to sell homes and make a good living. Put your efforts where the results are, not into what today’s techie says you need to do to stay au courant. Techies don’t sell houses. You do.
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I have to say that I agree with you. Social Media Can be a Sinkhole for Real Estate.
I also completely agree with this statement as well…
“Lacking an interest or skills in social networking will not affect your selling real estate. Lacking an Internet presence will greatly affect that ability and having one will bring you success you can’t now imagine.
I recognize that social networking is not being used as a primary tool to buy and sell houses, however Google is.
Understanding how and why Google works is crutial. You need to enable your site to show up above all others within your “potential customer’s” search criteria, and using social networking sites to keenly advertise your name, your company, and your product is the means with which to make this happen.
As long as you do it right.
My advice is to get educated first then jump in.
You can get lost for hours on-line, being seemingly busy, yet get nothing accomplished. Trust me, I’ve done it too. Your time is your most expensive cost.
I for one, will soon attempt to jump onto the Social Network Marketing Bandwagon, but will do so with knowledge and only if it is a good use of my time.